In Memory of Tony 1962-2003

     On Wednesday morning the 21st day of May 2003 I felt my life had just come to an end. I had to say a final goodbye to my husband, my best friend and my soul mate. God had callled him home and I was left behind. I felt abandoned and betrayed by God. This was the person I was suppose to grow old with, the person who gave me so many wonderful gifts and memories during the 24 years we were together. The most precious of those gifts are our three sons, Daniel, Andrew and Michael.
     Tony lost his battle with lupus at the age of 41. It wasn't a long fight. In fact he never really stood a chance of winning, but we didn't know that. His first symptoms started August 10 2002. But one thing about Tony, he was brave, optimistic, and full of hope. He believed God would take care of him. He always said God would not drop him, but would catch him. We just didn't think that God would catch him, hold him so close and not let him go. I can undertand why though. Once someone caught Tony they never wanted to let him go. He was a great friend to so many. For those of you who knew him I truly believe your life is richer for it. I will never know a finer man and heaven is lucky to have him. In the words of 10 year old Michael, his dad will make a great angel.
       We chose a special song for Tony's service and I would like to end with some words from that song. This is how Tony would have wanted everyone to live life.
       "May you never take one single breath for granted, God forbid love ever leave you empty handed. I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean. Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens. Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance, and when you get the choice to sit it out or dance, I Hope You Dance!"

God Bless You
Teresa
August 2003